Which way to go?

Would you rather be a nomad or be able to spread your roots?

Sure, it would be fun to circle the globe and see different places. I am always a sucker for travelling. I grew up to be a restless guy who has the incessant desire to see the world.

Well, our wants and needs change over time, especially when we have already accomplished most of our goals. That is probably the reason why someone wrote the famous line: "Success is not a destination but a journey". When you reach a point, you desire to go to another point. It is unending.

I am probably not alone in this quest for the ultimate goal. I think everyone has heard of the classical "midlife crisis". Is it really a dilemma? I do believe so (otherwise I would not have started another blog just to highlight another milestone in my life - reaching the age of 32!)

Anyway, I am still deciding where to go next. Or rather where should I settle down? My home country is not in the list right now. It is not that I shun my native land but I just don't find any reason to live there. It will do as a vacation spot at the moment.

So I have finally narrowed down my choices into three:

1. Canada
2. New Zealand
3. Australia

It is too early to make a decision until I leave Fiji. I am still distraught and slightly messed up keeping the water murky. You wouldn't want to swim when you can't see what is in front of you, wouldn't you?

Few of my criteria in choosing those places are:

1.) Tolerance to sexual preferences (or support for the third sex)
2.) Quality of life
3.) Availability of opportunities in the Hospitality field
4.) Opportunity to find a partner

Does item four sound shallow? Well, I am just being honest of my desires. Who would want to live in a place where you hardly meet someone of the same kind? It is torture!!!

If you have a better suggestion, you may consider helping me out in this?